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Saturday, July 6, 2019

Two Choices: The Servant Ministry of Deacons’ wives or Deaconesses


Conservative Baptist churches have two interpretive functional options when it comes to women and the roles and functions of deacons in their local assembly. These options are: 1) selecting a group of deacons wives that are on-call for servant ministry to women in the congregation for situations it would be inappropriate for a man (pastor or deacon) to attend to in Christ’s love or 2) selecting a group of women given the non-ordained position of deaconess that are not necessarily married to a deacon (they can be single or widowed as well) that are on-call for servant ministry to women in the congregations for situations it would be inappropriate for a man to attend to in Christ’s love. 

Here is an example of these inappropriate situations. A married couple who are members of the church have a family with two small children, but they have no relatives in the area. The man is in the National Guard and has been sent across the country for two weeks active duty training. The wife has been fighting cancer by using chemotherapy. On Saturday morning she gets nauseated and is too weak to get out of bed. She cannot call 911 to have the EMT’s change her sheets and clothes and make lunch for her children. This task needs to be done by her local church family. However, this would be inappropriate for a deacon (a one-woman man must be a male, 1 Tim 3:12) but it is a needed servant task for the body of Christ. Conservative Baptist churches that have a ministry of deaconesses or deacon’s wives could meet such a need in an organized and appropriate way.

Having an organized woman-to-woman servant ministry in a church is very important for the local assembly to be able to obey many of the fifty or so New Testament one another commands. What is not an option for a church committed to obeying the Bible is to ordain women deacons and have them serve beside the men and participate in all the decisions of the deacon board and rule over the men in the congregation through the administrative decisions of the deacon board. Actually, most Southern Baptist deacon boards take on many of the functions of the pastor/elders seen in the New Testament. Thus, this makes the decision to ordain women deacons even worse, because they are doing elder and deacon functions when the New Testament reserves these two offices to qualified men. Churches that make the compromise to directly disobey the book of 1 Timothy will find that the only pastors that will come to their church are moderates who believe there are many errors in the Bible. Often churches have found that such men have major moral compromises going on in their lives and they will move those problems right into your local assembly. Furthermore, these moral failures also make it into the local newspapers and affect the flow of the gospel into your community by your assembly for years to come.

The book of 1 Timothy was written to direct Timothy and the Ephesian church how to return a church that had slipped into error in theology and practice back on God’s proper path for each local church for all ages. Paul’s calling involved him in setting up the New Testament “house-order” in the families and congregations of the churches that he had planted or could visit (Eph 3:9 [HCSB “administration”]). The book of Ephesians that this church already had in their position laid out the duties and responsibilities of pastor/teachers, of the saints [church members] which directed the church assembly house-order. Likewise, Paul gave instruction for the house-order of the church members (saints) homes. He gave the duties and responsibilities of Husbands, wives, children and slaves. These two house-orders (home and church) are to work together so that everything in the church can be done decently and in order (1 Cor 14:40). Chaos is from the kingdom of darkness, not the kingdom of light. Thus, when a man leaves his house where he is the spiritual head and goes to the assembly of the church at another location, he is not in that group to have to now submit to his wife who is an elder or leader of the congregation. 1 Timothy 3 (vs. 2 and 12) uses the same qualification for elders and deacons—that they be a one-woman-man which can only be done by a person who is an adult male. And 1 Tim 2:11 forbids the women from teaching the Bible to or to be having authority over the adult males in the congregation. The requirements of this book last as long as the church is on the earth: “I write these things to you, hoping to come to you soon. 15 But if I should be delayed, I have written so that you will know how people ought to act in God's household, which is the church of the living God, the pillar and foundation of the truth” (1 Tim 3:14-15 HCSB).

We dare not make the mistake that the liberals do by trying to use historical examples recorded in the Bible (descriptive Scripture) to try to overrule clear teaching passages (prescriptive Scripture). This order is reversed. The teaching passages instruct us how to view the historical record. That is how we know polygamy is wrong. The prescriptive informs us how to view the descriptive texts (Gen 4:19; Matt 19:4-6)

Here is the passage in which conservative Bible students disagree on which structure to choose for the servant ministry of women in the church:

In the same way, servants in the church should be dignified, not two-faced, heavy drinkers, or greedy for money. 9 They should hold on to the faith that has been revealed with a clear conscience. 10 They should also be tested and then serve if they are without fault. 11 In the same way, women who are servants in the church should be dignified and not gossip. They should be sober and faithful in everything they do. 12 Servants must be faithful to their spouse and manage their children and their own households well. 13 Those who have served well gain a good standing and considerable confidence in the faith that is in Christ Jesus (1 Tim 3:8-13 Common English Bible, 2011)

Deacons likewise must be men of dignity, not double-tongued, or addicted to much wine or fond of sordid gain, 9 but holding to the mystery of the faith with a clear conscience. 10 These men must also first be tested; then let them serve as deacons if they are beyond reproach. 11 Women must likewise be dignified, not malicious gossips, but temperate, faithful in all things. 12 Deacons must be husbands of only one wife, and good managers of their children and their own households. 13 For those who have served well as deacons obtain for themselves a high standing and great confidence in the faith that is in Christ Jesus. (1 Tim 3:8-13 New American Standard Bible)

In verse 11 the term “women” is a translation of the Greek term gune [pronounced guun/Ay] which has the nuances of: a woman, a bride, or a wife. The context in which this term is used determines whether the Green term for a woman is a single woman, a widow, a divorced woman, a young virgin, or a married woman. In 1 Timothy 3:11 the context provides evidence for both translations (women or wives, see ESV) and biblical scholars are divided on which translation has the strongest evidence in its favor. The options for conservative evangelical Christians are only two. Either these are a select group of women in the congregation with the position of deaconess (non-ordained, no ruling or handling money like the male deacons, see the difference in the qualification lists) or these are the wives of the deacons. This author prefers the interpretation of the position of deaconess view because this best accords with historical theology as well and the New Testament record.

Very early in church history we see records of deaconesses that assisted the local church in preparing for the love feasts and the Lord’s Supper and they were the ones who held the blankets for women to change behind after a lake or river baptism. They cared for the sick in the church and the community. The idea of female nurses came from the early ministry of deaconesses. This goes back in the records to first century and extends throughout church history. For instance, in the 1500s, John Calvin’s wife was a deaconess who ministered faithfully to victims of the black plague during her short tenure on this earth. There are also records of deaconesses in the Baptist Churches in England during the 1600s.

The local church cannot fulfill its biblical mandates without the direct involvement of godly and gifted women. The New Testament has several qualifications for those that have an official position of serving as a wife of a deacon or a deaconess (dignified, not a gossip, sober-minded, and faithful) depending on the interpretation of the church. Women are also called to teach the Bible to and lead other women and children (Titus 2:3-5), but not the adult males in the congregation (1 Tim 2:11). To maintain the house-order in the Christian home and the Christian church, the women’s roles and audience is limited in the use of their spiritual gifts. The husband is the spiritual head of the home (1 Cor 11:3; Eph 5:22-25) and only qualified men are to lead the church (1 Tim 2:8-3:16). The unqualified males also must submit to the New Testament house-order so that things can be done properly and orderly and the home and the church can mutually support each other without conflict or role reversals. 

The Exegesis and Exposition of 1 Tim 2:11–12

The first epistle to Timothy was written by the apostle Paul sometime during the years of 63–64 A.D. after his first release from prison in Rome.[1] He probably wrote this epistle while visiting in Macedonia (Colossae).[2] This epistle differs from most of the other epistles as it is addressed to an individual and not a local assem­bly. The recipient, Timothy, was serving as pastor to the church at Ephesus. The church was also to read this letter to understand God’s program for church renewal. Paul considered Timothy as his spiritual son, and, thus, he wrote him concern­ing Christian living, doctrine, and propriety in the church. Timothy wanted very much to leave the problems at Ephesus, but Paul instructs him to stay and deal with these problems so the gospel can go forward.

Book Theme: The apostle Paul gives directions to Timothy for the administration of the church.[3]

Section Theme: The apostle Paul teaches concerning prayer and gives counsel to men and women (2:1–15).

Exegesis of 1 Tim 2:11-12

The context of chapter two begins with a call to prayer on behalf of all men. Paul then discussed Christ as the Mediator and his own apostleship to the Gentiles. Next, he repeats his instructions for men to pray and continues to give instruction to women. In verses nine and ten, Paul gives instructions concerning how believing women should dress and practice good works.   Paul further instructs women in verses 11 through 15 concerning receiving and imparting knowledge.

1 Tim 2:11 and 12 can be translated as follows:  A woman, let her be learning in quietness, in all subjection. Moreover, I am not permitting a woman to be teaching nor to be exercising authority over a man (adult male), but to be in quietness.[4]

The apostle Paul first addresses how a woman is to learn in the church.  She is to learn in silence.  The Greek word for “silence,” hesuchia, is used in verse two of this chapter in the phrase “tranquil and quiet life.”[5] The word denotes quietness and rest with a possible inference of reverence.[6]  (In another text where the author focuses on a different nuance of this term, it is often translated into English as “silence” in Acts 22:2.) Thus, in this context, it is not a complete silence, but a quietness that is opposite of boisterous or loud behavior. It is also used in this same sense in 1 Cor 14:34 which states, “Let the women keep silent in the churches; for they are not permitted to speak, but let them subject themselves, just as the Law also says.” This verse is in the context of exercising spiritual gifts, especially the gift of prophesy. This verse states that ladies are not to speak publicly in church or question the pastor in discussions during the worship service. They are to save their questions for their husbands according to the Lord’s command (verse 35–37). Likewise, women are to learn in all subjection. The Greek word translat­ed “subjection” has military implications, as one who is in a lower rank in the military. One scholar translates it as “subordinating herself in every respect.”[7] This word is used in 1 Tim 3:4 in the phrase, “Keep chil­dren under control,” and in Eph 5:22, “wives be subject to your hus­bands, as to the Lord . . . so the wives ought to be subject to their husbands in everything.” Hence, the apostle commands, “Let a woman be continually learn­ing (progressive present imperative) in quiet subjection.” Moreover, on his apostolic authority, he declares he is not permitting the following: 1) a woman to be teaching (infinitive of result) men; nor 2) a woman to be exercis­ing authority (infinitive of result) over a man. The Greek word for “permit­ting” indicates continual action and an abiding attitude, and it is often translated as “to allow” in other contexts (Acts 21:39; 28:15). Teaching and exercising authority are both present active infinitives and seem to indicate a position of continual teaching or exercising authority over men.[8] Thus, based on apostolic authority, females are not to have positions of spiritual oversight over or to teach adult males in the body of Christ. The Greek word for “teach­ing” is used four times in the pastoral epistle. “In all of these passages what is taught is assumed to be ‘good’ or ‘sound’ doctrine (didaskalia), which is passed on and preserved (i.e., taught).”[9]  Therefore, women are not forbidden to teach other topics, but only the authoritative proclamation of God’s Word to men. Paul then uses a strong adversative (“but”) to make a point of contrast – not teaching or ruling – “but to be in quietness.” 

The apostle Paul then gives authority for this order in the church, namely, the order of God in creation (verse 13). He then points to the terrible consequences that happened when this order was reversed—Eve leading and Adam following (verse 14). This author does not believe that these verses teach that women are more easily deceived than men. Some evan­gelical believers hold to this position; however, it could be that they have missed the point of the apostle Paul. It appears that he is stressing the importance of the order that God has established, not the lack of ability of women. Paul considers women capable of teaching other women (Titus 2:3–4) and capable of exercising authority [in the Greek language] over their children (1 Tim 5:4). God has obviously given various women the gift of teaching and abilities in managing household and business affairs (Proverbs 31). Yet God is a God of order, and the order He established in the family at creation is to be carried over into the larger family, the Church (1 Tim 3:4–5). Therefore, women are excluded in the body of Christ from certain functions that are part of the roles of men and are required instead to fulfill the functions God designed in their own roles.

The balance of truth in the Scriptures will add further light here. Both men and women are created in the image of God (Gen 1:27). Likewise, in regards to their spiritual essence and their relationship to Christ, male and female believers are on equal ground (Gal 3:27–28). Moreover, women have rights that are similar to men even in the Mosaic economy (Num 27:18).  Again, both male and females are given spiritual gifts to do the work of the ministry in edifying and expanding the church (Eph 4:12, 13). Women are also called “fellow-heirs of the grace of life” (1 Pet 3:7). Nevertheless, the Scriptures teach that there is a difference between the male and the female. In some sense, the woman is called “a weaker vessel” (1 Pet 3:7); which could mean physically or even emotionally, as the text states the requirement to live with her in an understanding way. However, this author believes that this is pointing to a difference and not to inferiority. Nowhere do the Scriptures teach that a woman is a second-class citizen.  Conservatives, in spite of the rhetoric from moderates on this issue, don’t believe they are. In 1 Cor 11:3, the Bible says, “the man is the head of a woman, and God is the head of Christ.”  Christ, however, is equal to the Father in substance, power, and glory and is in no way inferior to Him.  Yet, He has a different role than that of God the Father.  Likewise, Christian women are not inferior to men, but are given a different role in the order established by God.

The ministry of women is not incidental in the church. Every member of the body is vital in order for the body to function properly. In 1 Timothy, there are several references to the ministry of women, one being 1 Tim 3:11. These women could be (1) deacons’ wives, (2) women deacons, (3) the wives of elders and deacons, or (4) non-ordained women functioning in certain roles of a deacon and called deaconesses. This is a position and not an ordained office. This author prefers option number four as the best way to interpret this text.


[1].  John MacArthur, Jr., The MacArthur New Testament Commentary: 1 Timothy (Chicago: Moody Press, 1995), xiv.
[2]. Gordon D. Fee, 1 and 2 Timothy, Titus, New International Biblical Commentary (Peabody, MA: Hendrickson Publishers, 1988), 2.
4. William Hendriksen, Thessalonians, Timothy and Titus (Grand Rapids: Baker Book House, 1979), 46.
[4]. Underlined words are emphatic in the original Greek text.  The English wording is this author’s translation.
[5].  See chapter two in the New King James Version of the Bible.
[6]. Walter Bauer, A Greek-English Lexicon of the N.T. and Other Early Christian Literature, 2nd ed. (Chicago: University of Chicago Press, 1979), 349.
[7]. Bauer, Lexicon, 836.
[8].  “Since, therefore, the term διδάσκειν is used absolutely in the New Testament for an activity that is viewed positively in and of itself, and since οὐδὲ coordinates terms that are either both viewed positively or negatively, αὐθεντεῖν should be seen as denoting an activity that is viewed positively in and of itself as well. Thus, 1 Timothy 2:12 is an instance of the first pattern, in which the exercise of two activities is prohibited or the existence of two concepts is denied by the writer due to special considerations . . . The writer first expresses his desire for a woman to learn in full submission.  Conversely, he then registers his prohibition of the opposite; a woman’s teaching or being in authority over a man.”  In Andreas J. Kostenberger, Thomas R. Schreiner, and Scott Baldwin, eds., Women in the Church: A Fresh Analysis of 1 Timothy 2:915 (Grand Rapids: Baker Book House, 1995), 91.
[9]. Colin Brown, Dictionary of N.T. Theology, vol. 3 (Grand Rapids: Zondervan, 1975), 765.

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